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10 Best Pub Dishes for Sharing with Friends

17 October 2026 7 min read
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Find the best pub dishes for sharing, from crisp starters to generous mains, and plan a leisurely meal with friends and family around Epping and beyond!

A good table is rarely remembered for everyone ordering the same thing. It is the plate passed across to a friend, the last crispy bite politely fought over, and the excuse to stay for another drink that makes a pub meal feel like an occasion. The best pub dishes for sharing bring generous flavour to the middle of the table, giving everyone a little more to talk about between pints, cocktails and catch-ups.

Whether you are meeting after work, bringing the family together at the weekend or marking a birthday with a long lunch, sharing food makes the meal feel more relaxed. The key is choosing dishes with enough variety to suit the table, without leaving anyone reaching for a fork with nothing left on it.

What makes the best pub dishes for sharing?

The best shared plates offer contrast. Something hot and crisp alongside something rich, fresh or smoky will always go further than four versions of the same beige snack. A well-balanced table might begin with a few nibbles, move on to one or two more substantial dishes, then finish with sides that no one planned to order but everyone is pleased arrived.

Portion size matters, but so does practicality. Food that can be divided easily keeps the mood easy-going. Think bite-sized starters, bowls of skin-on chips, sharing boards, flatbreads, wings and dishes served with plenty of bread or dipping sauces. A beautifully cooked steak may be excellent, but it is not always the natural choice for a group unless it is specifically served to share.

It also depends on who is around the table. A family lunch calls for familiar, crowd-pleasing choices and a few safe options for younger diners. An evening with friends can be bolder, with spiced dishes, seafood, charcuterie or slow-cooked meat taking centre stage. The best approach is to order for the group rather than simply multiplying individual starters.

Start with crisp, golden favourites

There is a reason fried sharing dishes remain pub classics. They arrive hot, they work beautifully with a cold pint, and they are easy to pick at while everyone settles in. Properly seasoned chips are the foundation of many a good table, particularly when served with a choice of sauces. Add a portion of onion rings or crispy chicken, and there is instantly something familiar for every appetite.

Chicken wings are especially well suited to sharing. They can be sticky and sweet, peppery, smoky or properly spicy, depending on the kitchen’s style. Ask for napkins early and accept that they are not first-date food. That is part of the charm.

For a more refined take, look for croquettes, arancini, crispy calamari or a well-made scotch egg cut into portions. These dishes bring texture and richness without becoming a full meal too soon. A sharp aioli, mustard mayonnaise or herb dressing helps cut through the richness and gives the table another reason to keep dipping.

Choose a board that gives everyone a taste

A generous board is one of the easiest answers when nobody can agree on one starter. Cheese and charcuterie boards work particularly well with wine, real ale and a slower pace of dining. The mix of cured meats, cheeses, pickles, chutney, bread and crackers gives each person a different mouthful, rather than asking everyone to commit to one flavour.

The quality of the ingredients makes the difference here. Good bread should be fresh and substantial enough to carry toppings. Pickles need acidity, not just sweetness. Cheese benefits from a range of textures, perhaps a soft creamy option, something mature and firm, and a blue cheese for those who enjoy it.

A ploughman’s-style board offers a distinctly British alternative, especially for a lunchtime visit. It feels generous without being overly formal and pairs naturally with a pint in the garden. If your group includes vegetarians, a cheese-led board with roasted vegetables, olives and hummus can offer the same relaxed, communal feel.

Share something warm from the kitchen

A bowl of nibbles will carry a round of drinks, but a group that is genuinely hungry needs at least one hearty centrepiece. Flatbreads topped with slow-cooked meats, roasted vegetables or melted cheese are an easy option because they slice neatly and suit several tastes. The same is true of loaded chips when they are treated as a proper dish rather than an afterthought.

Slow-cooked pork belly bites, pulled beef or braised lamb can also work brilliantly when served with soft bread, slaw or a rich sauce. These are the dishes that feel indulgent on a chilly afternoon, particularly when the table is planning to linger. A rich sharing plate needs something fresh alongside it, though. A dressed leaf salad, crunchy slaw or pickled vegetables stops every bite tasting the same.

Seafood can be a wonderful choice for a smaller group, provided everyone is keen. Crispy prawns, smoked mackerel pâté with toast, or a bowl of mussels with plenty of bread create a more restaurant-led moment while still feeling right at home in a country pub. It is worth checking dietary requirements before ordering shared seafood, as one person’s treat can be another person’s no-go.

Do not underestimate the sides

The sides are often where a sharing meal becomes generous. One bowl of chips may disappear in minutes. Two, with a green vegetable or a fresh salad alongside, gives everyone room to enjoy the main plates without having to guard the last few chips.

Macaroni cheese, cauliflower cheese, buttery mash and seasonal vegetables all suit a table where comfort is the priority. In warmer weather, choose lighter options such as a tomato salad, grilled greens or a crisp house salad. The season should guide the order. Heavy, cheesy dishes are a pleasure in winter, while a sunny beer-garden lunch may call for brighter flavours and less richness.

A simple rule helps: pair richer shared food with at least one fresh side, and pair a lighter main dish with something warming or crunchy. It keeps the table balanced and means there is a little something for every mood.

Build a table that works for everyone

Ordering to share does not mean every dish must suit every person. In fact, the most enjoyable tables usually include a few reliable favourites and one or two choices that feel slightly more adventurous. Start with a familiar base such as chips, bread or chicken, then add a vegetarian dish, a meat or fish option, and something fresh.

If there are four or more of you, it helps to ask the server what is most generous on the current menu. Seasonal dishes and specials can be excellent, but they may be designed as individual plates rather than sharing food. A knowledgeable recommendation can prevent the common mistake of ordering plenty of starters, then finding that the table is still hungry.

For children, keep one or two simple dishes within reach and avoid making the whole spread too spicy. For adults with dietary needs, do not rely on picking around ingredients. Choose a dish that has been created to suit them, so everyone can eat comfortably and enjoy the occasion.

Match the food to the drinks and the moment

A crisp lager or pale ale is a natural partner for salty, fried dishes, while a rich stout or darker ale can stand up to slow-cooked meat and mature cheese. Cocktails offer another route: a sharp, citrus-led drink can freshen up rich food, while a classic gin and tonic works beautifully with seafood and lighter plates.

There is no need to overthink the pairing, but variety is helpful. If the table is ordering sticky wings, loaded chips and a cheese board, include sparkling water and a few lighter drinks among the pints. It gives everyone a reset between bites and makes a long lunch feel comfortably paced rather than overly heavy.

At The Merry Fiddlers, the most enjoyable shared meals are the ones that suit the people at the table: a relaxed catch-up in the beer garden, a family celebration, or a few friends making an evening of it. Choose food with contrast, order enough for seconds, and leave room for the unexpected extra side. The best tables are never rushed.

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